6 Reasons You Aren’t Finding Love On Dating Apps (Even Though You’re A Catch) — Thought Catalog

1. You never meet your matches in person. You can form a connection through text and get to know each other pretty well through text, but if you want a serious relationship with this person, then you’re going to have to meet them. Even though it’s scary to take the next step, you’re going to have…

6 Reasons You Aren’t Finding Love On Dating Apps (Even Though You’re A Catch) — Thought Catalog

God Loves Life

Jesus Christ crucifix statue

Distracted By Negativity

If God didn’t love life, you wouldn’t be here today experiencing love and happiness. He created this world so we could experience what it feels like to live, laugh, smile and most importantly to love. Yet no matter how many opportunities we come across to live a happy and blissful life, we somehow still allow the negativity of this world to influence us.

God loves life when he sees his creation living a prosperous, loving and caring lifestyle. He loves it when we help each other and extend our hearts to one another. He doesn’t like it when we lie, indulge in lust and sin, steal, deceit others, kill and spread hated, negativity and evilness in the world.

Evilness is the negativity which attempts to influence us on a daily basis. Negativity is like an invisible force that hovers all around us in space and time. It easily spreads from one human to another, engulfing us under its influence and keeping us locked and loaded in the negativity trigger.

Once we are positioned in the negativity trigger, we’re shot around like spraying bullets, infecting and injuring others around us. This is the evil never-sleeping chain reaction that continuously rocks this world from its peaceful core. And the more that you partake in it, the harder it becomes to set yourself free.

God loves life because he has given us an opportunity to experience free will. He does not force himself upon you. He allows you to decide if you want to live a life full of love or a life full of sin. But God experiences pain as well, especially when he sees us suffering and indulging in negativity.

One of the crucial problems experienced by many people around the world, is the indulgence in negativity without even knowing it; this is happening on an unconscious level. As we previously discussed, the unconscious mind pulls the strings of your conscious mind. But who is pulling the strings of your unconscious mind?

When the answer is “negativity,” then that’s when you know that you are in too deep. That’s when you have to take a step back and reanalyze your way of being: your choices, decision-making, thought process, thought content, perception, intentions and relationships. Again, God gives you the free will to pick and choose your route: are you going to take a bite out of an earthly and tasty fruit or are you going to drink the blood of Jesus Christ, and live a pure and dedicated life to God and his salvation?

God loves life. Do you?

Are you Ready? (This is Defeating Stigma Mindfully)

Radiate Love With Your Heart

Two persons forming love fingers in front of body of water

It Feels Good To Spread

Nothing feels better than being surrounded by the warm comfort of love. It provides emotional comfort, a sensation of well-being and good mental health. The best part of it is that we can all contribute to spreading love and making this world a better place. But it starts within you! You must go deep within your heart and open the chambers of secretion.

Not everyone’s chambers of secretion are open; some people’s are clogged or non-functional to begin with. Someone can bathe you in love but no one can teach you how to spread it; it must come from you! Many people refuse to love because they have experienced many negative outcomes in life.

These people remain bitter and angry at the world, preventing them from radiating love and attracting positivity into their lives. This is a common mistake of many human beings: preventing your life from filling with love because of bitterness. Remaining bitter will not do you any good.

Some people believe the following, “I’ve been nice my whole life and I’ve always lost! I’m not going to be nice anymore.” This is a destructive mentality because you are preventing your true self from living; you are replacing it with a new identity that you hope will deliver you more respect and positive attention.

This might work for a little bit at first, but in the long run it will fail. Those who are not themselves are more likely to experience a mental illness, because they are not allowing their natural thoughts, behaviors and personality traits to flourish. Don’t try to be someone who you’re not!

Even if the world has treated you unfairly thus far, do the opposite by hugging and kissing the world back. In the bible it says, “You have heard that it was said, ‘eye for eye and tooth for tooth.’ But I tell you not to resist an evil person. If someone slaps you on your right cheek, turn to him the other also; if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well; and if someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two. Give to the one who asks you, and do not turn away from the one who wants to borrow from you.”

The best way to live is in peace, love and harmony. We all suffer in this life and experience turmoil and pain. We all believe that life can be very unfair at times and wonder why “bad people” often win and why we lose. Your concern should not be on why others are winning; focus on yourself and being the best person that you can be!

You cannot go wrong with being a loving person.

Are you Ready? (This is Defeating Stigma Mindfully)

Turn Your Addiction Into Self-Love

Two addicted burned out females smoking

Your Antivirus Is The Power Of Love

That bottle of Jack, that pack of Camels, that hit of a Fattie . . . all tempting compulsions that have been integrated into your daily habits as a source of pleasure; your brain releasing increasing amounts of the neurotransmitter called dopamine. Your consciousness suddenly enters the state of mind that you have been waiting for; you’re on Cloud 9! Now you ask yourself, “which enjoyable activity do I proceed to?”

The above statement is a typical mindset of a user abusing substances. And this pattern repeats itself for years, even decades for some. The problem is that the mind of the user, the brain per-say, has been hijacked; the reward system of the brain called the Nucleus Accumbens is in love with this new source of pleasure called “drugs.”

It wants you to keep using, and in return, it gives you dopamine which makes both your brain and you, the user, feel good. But as I talk about in my other post, this relationship is not healthy and will never last, and if it does, it will last at a low depressing level.

So how do we work on dissolving an addiction? Remember that thing called love? Sure you do; it trumps everything because the source is from God our creator. By calling on God to give you energy and love, he will help you curb your addiction. But first things first: you must work really hard to love yourself.

No human who is addicted can possibly say that they love themselves, when they deliberately proceed with their drug addiction; you are basically hurting yourself. Once you tap into that source of love, you will discover that love will now reach the Nucleus Accumbens and naturally stimulate it to be happy without any substances; as it was intended in the first place when you were born.

Are you Ready? (This is Defeating Stigma Mindfully)